How do we know when it's time to forgive? What does forgiveness even look like?
I'll put my hands up and admit there's been times when someone has crossed the point of no return and however much it hurts there's just no going back.....
I know it's shit and I know it changes stuff but we can't just lay there like doormats letting everyone walk over us can we?
Being able to let go though isn't just about forgiving the other person for what they have done. It can simply mean setting yourself free from the pain it has caused and allowing yourself to move on.....
So if this sounds like something you might want to hear about I've listed a few tips below that can help us all start the process of forgiveness and letting go..... Let's talk about them.
Forgiveness 101 - What Is It?
"Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, and overcomes negative emotions such as resentment and vengeance"
If you wanna get serious and break it down to it's basic level forgiveness is an act of kindness to ourselves. It's a reflective process where we can pause and look at the bigger picture rather than just the pain it's caused and in forgiving someone we are able to find peace, acceptance and closure.
Tips On How To Learn To Forgive Others